Monday, April 6, 2009

hard questions...

One of my mom's friends just asked her a couple of very much hard questions. This is a super lady and she just lost the love of her life.
She wants to know why someone who was so good and kind and helpful to everyone was suddenly taken from us.
She wants to know why the druggies and murderers and rapists and swindlers are still here.

I know that there MUST be answers to these questions.

It doesn't seem enought to say that those who are bad, mean. low rent, trash may be alive BUT THEY ARE NOT REALLY LIVING. They are not LOVED.
I would like to ask you if you have any words that I can give to this lovely lady when she is hurting so much????


Ruby and Penny said...

Hi Frankie
We feel sad for your mom's friend.
Unfortunatly life is not fair and good innocent people get hurt or die. Your mom's friend has to go through the stages of grief and anger is one of them.
Your mom just being there for her friend is a comfort and sometimes words are not needed or welcome, just an ear to listen or a hug or two.
Love Ruby & Penny

Frankie Furter said...

Hi Girrrrls, You are very much right about all this. I think when I get to see the lady I will cuddle up with her. I wish you two could be here to help me with it.
Butt,,, not today. I got a shot in my Butt and it hurts, juat a bit.
Much love to both of you.

detroit dog said...

Ah, so sad for your mom's friend.

What to say? Sometimes there are no words.

Frankie Furter said...

Detroit Dog, I think you are on the right trail here. No words can make it better. Butt, having two and four legged friends and loved ones around helps a little bit. A warm body in a cold world.